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Short term pastoral counseling,
as offered by Catholic Campus Ministry, is a non-professional
tool which is able to assist people who are attempting
to identify and resolve some specific issue. Sometimes
referred to as Time Limited Counseling, the process
involves two primary techniques: identification and
emphasis of a focal relational issue (FRP) and the
development of a strategy for resolution of the FRP
within a pre-determined set of meetings. The counselor
in this setting is not a therapist. The counseling
is not clinical counseling. The counselor is a minister
who serves as a guide in helping the person to develop
skills they already possess and to be a sounding board
on the way to resolving the defined issue. If at the
end of the process the client still has not resolved
the issue or is not well on the way to resolving it,
a referral to an appropriate professional is then
made. This should not be viewed as unusual.
Students will come to a campus minister with a variety
of issues. They face conflicts with parents, teachers,
fellow students, friends, and romantic interests on
a regular basis. Most of the time, their basic need
is for someone to listen and to help them put their
issues into context. Often, they need an advocate.
Time-limited counseling can meet these needs.
At the heart of this technique,
the minister, on first contact, spends time simply
listening and then gives some feedback to make sure
the issue is correctly in focus. Critical information
is taken and assessed in order to ascertain and sharpen
the presenting problem. The issue is then evaluated
and consultation and referrals are made at the beginning,
if necessary. Finally, a determination is made as
to the number of sessions that will be required, usually
between three and six. Success is the goal and if
this cannot be accomplished, a referral would need
to be made. Expectations are clearly stated at every
stage. Each session begins with an accounting of the
number of meetings to go in order to evoke a sense
of urgency. The focal relational problem (FRP) is
then restated and clarified, focusing attention on
remedy and progress. The minister keeps attention
on the FRP throughout. The goal of this type of pastoral
counseling is to enable the student to help themselves.
At the end of the process, the student is usually
ready either to face the issue himself or herself
or to move on to a more formal counseling process.
If you have questions or feel
like you need to explore the possibility of Pastoral
Counseling, please contact
the Campus Minister to set up an appointment.
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